I woke up feeling sad. My energy was low, melancholic, resigned. There was a heaviness to it, but also a comfort and familiarity. It was a Saturday, the sky was bright, and the day was ahead of me.
The beauty of allowing Read More »
For most of my life, I have been more reliant on the masculine than feminine qualities and characteristics. I’d tell myself that I need to be strong, composed and reliable. I’d favour rationality over intuition when taking decisions.
The safety of the feminine Read More »
Our fears are often future-oriented. We’re worried about an outcome we want to avoid and we’re projecting it into the future—they might reject my offer, I might embarrass myself, I might underperform.
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We often isolate ourselves when we’re hurt. We close ourselves around our suffering, shut the door to the world, and to largely to ourselves, and hide. We don’t allow ourselves to be vulnerable around our issues, because we’re ashamed of whatever we’re going through.
The masculine and the feminine Read More »
Our presumption that people are innocent until proven otherwise rests on the belief that people are inherently good rather than bad. We have chosen to trust that life is good rather than evil, that people are kind rather than vicious, generous rather than stingy. But when it comes to trust, we say that trust is
One of the most insurmountable obstacles to forgiveness is the assumption that it entails accepting the blame ourselves. We find it impossible to absolve someone’s actions because whether we’re consciously aware of it or not there’s the felt sense that if they’re not at fault, then surely we must be.
Why we resist forgiveness Read More »
What is the main reason you aren’t a bestselling author, a millionaire, a top athlete, or the founder of a super successful start-up?
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Having grown up in a country that has spent the last six centuries battling life and then itself, I was raised to believe that you fight to get to where you want to be in life. And there was pride and virtue attached to it.
How to be a force for creation—don’t force it Read More »
We learn that the harder we pursue the higher our chances of attaining what we’re looking for. But often we find that the more we get the more we want.
To make ourselves the centre of our world is one of the most humble things we could do.
The centre of the universe Read More »