When we’re worried about what other people think of us, what we’re really worried about is the fact that we think there’s something worrisome about us. It is not other people’s opinion that we’re concerned about, but our own concern that there’s something concerning about us.
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The access to who we really are is on the other side of our limited idea of ourselves. The stories and narratives we have about ourselves are invariably based in limitation. They are coping mechanisms we, or more precisely the ego-based part of us, adopted when we were children in response to the events of our life.
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ways we aren’t fully conscious of, we attract in life the tailor-made circumstances for our evolution. We attract what we judge until we no longer judge what we attract. We attract what we resist, until we no longer resist what we attract.
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There is a lot of stigma around asking for what we need. You may think that if you deserved it, you wouldn’t have to ask for it. You may believe that you’re being entitled, arrogant, or too demanding. You may tell yourself that whatever the situation you’re not satisfied with is, it could have been worse.
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We often mistake symptoms for root causes. The self-judgement is the symptom. The subconscious narrative that creates it is the root cause.
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We often have hard time asking for help. It may feel embarrassing or as an admission of weakness. Perhaps we think we’re intruding or we that not coping on our own is a sign of weakness.
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People see in us a reflection of who they are. As we see ourselves in others. We are all mirrors for each other. The positive qualities people see in us are the positive qualities they feel in themselves. What we reject in others is what we don’t accept about ourselves.
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When we have resistance to ask for the love, care, help, attention we need often that’s because there’s an underlying assumption that if we deserved them, we wouldn’t have to ask for them.
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When we get too hung up on taking the right decision—whether that’s because we’re afraid of failure, or the stakes are too high—we can get into an analysis paralysis.
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I was running one afternoon, when I realised that nothing in my life was a coincidence. Everything, literally every single thing that has happened—every feeling I’ve had, each big and small decision I’ve taken, every thought—was the tailor-made extension of the person I had been. My life, in all it was and all it wasn’t,
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