One of the most insurmountable obstacles to forgiveness is the assumption that it entails accepting the blame ourselves. We find it impossible to absolve someone’s actions because whether we’re consciously aware of it or not there’s the felt sense that if they’re not at fault, then surely we must be.
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What is the main reason you aren’t a bestselling author, a millionaire, a top athlete, or the founder of a super successful start-up?
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To harbour a feeling that is too overwhelming we can either shrink the feeling or bust the illusion that we’re not expansive enough to contain it.
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Reverse-engineering our actions, thoughts and feelings to get to the origins of our limitations is the first step in transcending them.
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The key to avoiding what we’re trying to avoid is in facing it. Whether it’s rejection or failure, what we try to prevent is the answer to preventing it.
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We change when the pain of our current life becomes stronger than the fear of what the future may hold.
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The things we stick with on the long-term are the things that, while they may be challenging, unpleasant, tedious at times, we enjoy more than we don’t. They are the things that energise us more than they drain us. To achieve anything meaningful in life we need to push past hurdles. Any game worth playing
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